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    Raccoon Society-- Ask Mat--- ROUND 9

    Posted on October 5, 2009 at 07:40 PM

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    Listening to: the soundtrack to my antisocial autumn college days: Magnetic fields, sonic youth, cure, new order, pixies

    Drinking: layercake shiraz, Coppola Claret, miso soup, Cakebread Cellars 2005 cab

    Eating: Mike and Ikes

    Reading: The Early Ayn Rand : unpublished fiction, MAXIM

    Typing at you from my hotel in Colorado. It’s 5am and Greg is sleepfarting in the other bed every 10 minutes, wrapped up in blankets like a burrito, swimming in sweet oblivion. In his body’s defense, we still haven’t fully recovered from the Wake Up the Sleepers record release slumber party pillow fight at Angels and Kings in Chicago 3 days ago. It just demolished us… arose the next afternoon with my boots still on, tied together somehow, beyond dehydrated… my head felt like a giant salt lick. Thankfully my voice returned in time for tonight’s show in Denver, although this fucking lazy eye may be permanent. Nice little souvenir for me. See the evidence of debauchery here

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    I want to thank my personal sensei, BENJI MADDEN, for taking the time to bestow some excellent advice upon the Raccoon Society this week. All the Madden brothers are incredibly generous in terms of friends and fans, and Benjamin has gone above and beyond here, handling some of your heavy topics with ease. 

    <<<My guest on next week’s ASK MAT will be BAM MARGERA. If you’d like to address a personal story or question to him, just put  ????BAM   at the top of your comment. This is a very rare chance for you to seek guidance from a good friend who continues to lead one of the fullest, most intense lives imaginable.>>>

    Finally, thank you to all the Raccoons and new visitors for contributing. I love the range of topics and the fearlessness you have to trust this community with sensitive material. I do have one request tho: I’m running out of Adderall, so try to convey your stories and questions as efficiently as possible. Don’t tempt me to start paraphrasing the whole column down into A.D.D.-friendly Twitter format... imagine that:

    Q: <3 you mat. xkim. 16y. stepdad abuse. issues with men x100. scared. alone.

    A: kim, be strong. stepdad=c@cksucker. escape. find art. you>your fam.

    Ok let’s roll.

    1) FROM Alexandria

    ??????Benji,

    Recently the guy that I have been dating asked me to move in with him next year after I finish this year of college. I excitedly said yes, of course, because I do love him. Well last night I was at a party with a bunch of my friends, and a friend of mine asked me why my BF wouldn't move down here, since I'm in college and he isn't. I didn't have an answer for her.

    So today I asked my boyfriend, if need be, would he move down here for me, so I could stay in college. He asked why, and I explained that the college where he lives is 4 times as expensive as the one that I'm going to now. This being said, he told me that in all honesty, NO, he would not move down here because he has "too much going for him where he lives now"...I'm just really confused. I mean, don't get me wrong, we love each other. I'm just not sure as to why I should be the one to uproot my life. Any advice?

    Alexandria, (And anyone else with a similar situation.)

    This is kind of a textbook young relationship problem. I'm guessing you are probably 19 or 20, being that you just finished your 1st year of college. Congrats by the way. This is an important time in your life. you’re figuring out what you want to do with your future, preparing to try and make your dreams come true.

    Here are a couple scenarios:

    a.Your dream is to be married and have kids right now, and this guy has a great career and you r comfortable having him support you and be the family provider… well then, by all means drop everything and go be with this guy (not the best move in my opinion)

    b. YOU are going to college for a reason: you have other goals. you love this guy however you have your own priorities. Well then you gotta keep you r priorities straight. There will come a day when you are a little older when you have other responsibilities and commitments and your life will in a way belong to other people.

    Right now is your time to do everything you want to do. get your education. figure out your dreams. and ANYONE who really loves you, will support this thru and thru no matter what it takes.

    SO there is no reason why you can't have both. If you both love each other then you will do what it takes to support EACHother’s happiness. and if he isn't down well.... that says a lot. 

    SO in my opinion. stay in the school you want to be at. Make your future YOUR number one priority. Whatever you want that future to be. Good luck!!

     2) FROM Matt

    ??????DEAR MAT: I'm in Chicago for a while. When I first got here I saw this beautiful girl, (pale skin, dark eyes, bright crimson lips) who reminded me of some sort of Russian countess, she was reading Dostoyesky. I then saw her working at a store on Michigan avenue, where she was very friendly to everyone and I caught her singing Depeche Mode and talking about the opera to a customer. I think she was also outside the Kill Hannah afterparty on the phone, she was with this other girl, and I also saw another dude with a pink robe; I wish I was allowed in. If she was there that means she's probably older than I am. I'm a tall skinny 18 year old guy who dresses in hoodies and jeans all the time, and she seems like so idealistically sophisticated. Questions.... 1.) How can a guy like me get a girl like that? 2.) You seem to also have similairities with her, is it like Chicago thing? 3.) Where in Chicago can I meet girls like that? 4.) What's one Chicago food place I gotta go before I leave? thanks.
Wake up the sleepers KICKS FUCKING ASS by the way!

    1) Ok Matt. First of all, you have a great name and great taste in girls. Judging from the criteria you described, the object of your teen beat obsession is either AlexandraKristina or Alejandra.

    Check the links to see their photos from the party. All three are brooding, cool and cultured. The good news is, not a single one of them left her apartment this morning saying, “God, I really hope a younger guy doesn’t flatter me today.”

    When I was young, I was terrified to take my shirt off in public. I looked like Gollum. My torso was basically an exoskeleton. Not only were all my ribs and concave breastplate exposed in vivid detail, you could actually see my little bird heart beating thru the thin, mole-covered skin between my miniscule nipples. The unattainable male Ideal at that time was buff, tan, studly and also somehow a master at both saxophone and karate. These days, YOU are the ideal. You’re tall, skinny,18 AND smart? You’re LETHAL, Matt. Look at the lead singers in Alternative Press Magazine. Your face could look like an old catchers mit, it doesn’t even matter if you’ve got the silhouette and the style. 

    Your hoody and jeans combo is borderline acceptable, but avoid becoming a Hot Topic caricature. Make sure you have great shoes, maybe a tiny hint of good cologne, one simple silver ring and maybe try layering the hoody underneath with a thermal longsleeve or one of American Apparel’s thin v-necks. Don’t shave for 2 weeks. Stick with earth tones and grays. Buy classic RayBans. Maybe a tattoo.. something original and monochrome.. like the floorplan of the Louvre or St Peter's basilica something.

    Next, just introduce yourself.. “were you smoking outside Angels and Kings a few days ago?” or “Is it true that Mat once saved 100 children from a burning orphanage?”

    Then, as Nickelodeon as this sounds, just be yourself -for all your blundering youthful charm. Those girls get hit on by cheesy NYSE traders and married douchebags all day. As intimidating as they may seem, they would MELT at the thought of a dorky guy like you nervously crushing on them from a distance. Believe me, you are invinsible. You’ll need your Tolstoy book to beat them off of you.

    2) more of a London thing that we rip off

    3) Greg’s apartment. Depaul campus, Rodan… or Smiths night at Danny’s.

    4) Al’s Beef. Get the #7. Throw some fries to the janky-ass pigeons.


    3) FROM Pat

    ?????? Benji

    So, a friend of mine has been in an emotionally and verbally abusive relationship for years now, and it recently turned physical. It’s a direction we all saw it going in, and we've all been trying to talk him out of it.

    There've been earnest face-to-face talks and phone calls. some friends have gone so far as to have interventions! His girlfriend is possessive, jealous, belittling, and completely unstable. His list of friends he is actually allowed to talk to is quickly diminishing (we weren't meant to be in contact for years).

    I feel like I've tried everything to convince him that its unhealthy and that he should leave for his own safety. He'll admit that its a totally fucked and unhealthy situation, but he won't consider leaving. It’s gotten to the point that I feel like I can't be there for him when she lashes out, because its a broken record of advice. I'm just feeling totally lost about the whole situation, he's such an important part of my life and he worries me so much.

    PAT,

    I hate to break it to you but there isn't much you can do in the way

    of direct action. I mean you already told your friend how you feel and that this relationship sux. Guys don't listen most of the time. All you can do now is try and be a good friend stick it out unless it gets unhealthy for your life. And just try and lead by example. Eventually hopefully your buddy will snap out of it.

    I'm not sure how old you guys are, but if you are still in school maybe you can get him to talk to yall's guidance counselor with you about the physical abuse. Cause that’s never acceptable. -even from girls. Or, you could find a way hotter way nicer girl who wants to go out with him....that tends to make people forget real fast! good luck buddy!!

    4) From KAT:

    ????? Hi Mat. I live with my dad and my sister since my mom died 2 years ago. I’ve never really lived with him cus they divorced when i was 2, so i don’t really know him any well. Anyway, I am often feeling very sad and lonely and i wish to see a psychologist, but i just can’t tell him, i want to, but it’s so hard. Do you have any idea what i can do?

    I’m so sorry for your loss. I have a good friend going through the same thing right now, and she’s just pulverized. My heart breaks for you both.

    It’s odd to me that a lot of people still view therapy as taboo or as a sign of weakness. On the contrary, the fact that you plan to step up and ask for help shows a great deal of maturity and sense. I’m surprised that you and your sister weren’t strongly encouraged to do so immediately after your mom’s passing. it’s long overdue.

    A lot of old-school dads have a knack for unintentionally intimidating their own daughters. Even those that don’t drink Coors and don’t have handlebar mustaches can still be scary. The irony is, he may be just as intimidated of YOU. Some dads get so freaked at the thought of their little babies buying tampons and giving handjobs on the basement sofa that they just shut down communication entirely.

    Like it or not, you guys are a 3-piece now, with 3 distinct personalities -like the Yeah Yeah Yeah’s. You are Karen-O, your sister is Nick, and your dad can be what’s-his-name.

    For a while, try to communicate more. be open and honest and respect each other’s differences. In the process you may actually learn to (gulp, shivers) like one another. If he’s cool, it can be a liberating breakthrough to start speaking on the same level.

    ORRRR maybe your dad seriously just sucks. In that case, a) get help on your own. (google Grief Counceling in your city. Group Therapy is great because you’re relating directly to others who share your exact circumstances.) b) begin hatching your escape from Alcatraz. (hoard your $$, get the best grades possible, etc…) c) protect your sister. Bond with her.

    5) ????BENJI

    Hi Benji, my name is Brianna. And while we're on the pointless stuff that you probably don't care to know, I've always wanted to let you know that you have helped me through many of the extremely hard times in my life (i'm sorry that it's so cliche). But given the opportunity of asking you something, I took it, and would very much appreciate anything you have to say about it, and will take all of it to heart.

    Right now, I need your advice more than ever. So i'll give a little backgroud information, in hopes that you can understand and help me better.

    I'm currently 17. And ever since the age of 15, i've had my bouts with the ever-present teenage depression. I always thought it was a 'phase' that i'd eventually grow out of, if I gave myself some time to think and create goals for myself. But....after two years of fighting (or at least trying to) those feelings off, they're still present in my life, every day.

    Lately, it's become truly overwhelming. I used to enjoy going out with my friends and just doing random things, things that would typically put a smile on my face, even if it was a small one. And

    even though I know that's the best thing to do to rid myself of my depressed mindset, I still feel as if all I want to do is sit at home, and be miserable. And I feel like I can't control those thoughts. I've had so many people go out of my life (a few to suicide) and I really don't know how to deal with that, in a good and positive way at least.

    I'm not going to lie. Suicide has crossed my mind countless times, way too many times. And honestly, I've been more scared by that thought than anything else. I've thought of everything from how I was going to do it to what I was going to leave for everyone after I went through with it. I've experimented with self-mutilation, and that is one thing that I truly hate myself for doing, because I have to look at the marks I left on myself every single day.

    The timing for this "Ask Mat" session could not be more perfect. Because i'm slowly but surely slipping back into one of those holes.

    Benji, I know you've been through a lot in your life, a hell of a lot more than me, and  that's one reason I admire you so much. That and the fact that you can channel all of your negativity and put it into songs to create more positive energy to rid yourself of it. For six years, i've wondered in astonishment how you can do that so well. I can't seem to use my own words/poetry/lyrics to pick myself up, and music is pretty much the only thing I have right now. So here's my question Benji:

    could you give me some advice/help on how  to cope with this depression, and possibly make it better? I really really  eally do not want to go back to my old ways of thinking and I CERTAINLY  don't want to even THINK about taking my own life again. I know you (and  Mat, too) get this type of question a lot. And i'm sorry for that. But since  you've played an extremely important role in my life going on 7 years now,  advice and words from you would be my best bet right now. I really hope that you can somehow help me alter my way of thinking of not only myself, but of  my world. Thank you so much, Benji. You have no idea just how important your words are to me. Be safe and stay well! 

    Brianna, Thanx for the nice words. I'm sorry to hear you have had such a rough time with things. You're in good company though. Really so many people feel the same way as you do. Everything you have mentioned i can relate to and have had similar thoughts, and experiences. 17 is such a young age to have everything figured out. YOU are supposed to be lost right now. You aren't supposed to really know the answer to anything. Sometimes life does hurt really badly, and there is no explanation. But I promise that when the good moments come down the road they are worth sticking it out thru all the bad ones. I promise you that.

    I still have my struggles.

    For a good 2 years(during our last record) I was in really BAD place. My life was suffering for it and i was abusing myself and letting others abuse me too. About a year ago i knew i had to get out of it or i was going to do something horrible. The same guy that wrote "Hold on" and i was barely hangin in.

    I felt pathetic, but i reminded myself that i was human and that i had been thru this before. As i get older i just have learned who i am, when my mindstate starts slipping back to old patterns and feelings there are a few things i did, and still DO, to combat it:

    a. I will do something that is good for me. Where i used to hurt myself or abuse myslef, now i do something that helps. I will spend time learning something that will benefit my Life, i started taking piano lessons. I also started working out, trying to be healthier. I have found it is even better for my mind then my body, even my music has benefited from it. I have more self respect because i put time and effort into myself.

    b. I will just simply try and help someone else. I get stuck in my own head and this helps me get out of it. I will just think of someone I know that is having a hard time in some way. Just give them a call and say "how r you doing?" and listen to their problems and try and offer them some support. Or find a way you can get involved in helping in your community. Any excuse to help others  is a good thing. it helps me get away from my own shit. -and usually when i get back around to my own issues i kind find that they aren't so bad (or at least that someone else is going thru it too.)

    c. I will just try and do something creative. I am so lucky to have music. In fact our new album has kind of been my saving grace. I have been able to put all of my feelings, energy, frustration, emotions, everything into writing this record. It has gotten me thru a tough spot in my life. There is something creative for all of us to do out there we just have to find it.

    d. Sometimes i will just find help. If i don't know how to deal with something. i will find someone who can show me how to, whether it’s a therapist or an advisor. Someone who can help me figure out what I am going thru.

    Remember, tho, that you aren't alone and this just a part of growing up for some of us. Some days we gotta just put our headphones on and listen to our favorite songs and tough it out. I CAN def promise you this: Your life will be different at 23 than it is at 17, and different at 27 than it is at 23, and different at 30...and so on and so on. Everything feels so big right now but everything changes. growing up is hard and painful sometimes, but there is good stuff on the way too. Take care of yourself....

    6)  From ABBEY

    ?????

    Dear Mat, I'm the unpopular kid in my school, and i get bullied and teased a lot. This has been going on for 2 and a half years and i never really said anything because I was too scared to stand up. Now, I really want to get even. I want to do something funny and creative. I was wondering if you had any original pranks to get the ringleader back? I want something really big for him, I'd prefer if it wasn’t something confronting- if he knew who played the prank on him he would break my bones.

    Are you automotively inclined? How good are you at locating a brake cable?  Kidding.

    I’m a huge fan of nerd uprisings. Every nerd around the world responds to bullies in their own way. I don’t get the impression that you’ve been out shopping for trenchcoats and shotguns lately, so I applaud your healthy sense of perspective.

    You already know that geeks win in the end. It’s Newton’s 6th law. They grow up to become not only doctors, lawyers, scientists, and billionaires, but also knights (Anthony Hopkins), models (Tyra Banks), A-list celebrity actors (Natalie Portman, Tobey Maguire) and musicians (all of them).

    You know who LOVES bullies when they grow up?  Javier Suarez. Don’t recognize that name? He’s the manager at Jiffy Lube on 35th and Archer. He can’t WAIT to hire the kids who are taunting you.

    OK, I’ll give you 2 courses of action:

    2-year plan: Your ultimate revenge will come when you sleep with his mother and his girlfriend on the same day. You do this by forming a band. Don’t waste your time writing songs. (girls don’t know the difference.) Start doing pushups, and learn to shred the entire Maroon 5 catalog. I’ll give you phase II of this plan later.

    2-month plan: Bottom line, you need a picture of that kid naked. Visit a local spy shop and look into a hi-rez pen camera and camera glasses. Do some reconnaissance. Study his habits.. esp. bathroom breaks and gym class. Once you get your pic, email blast the entire school from a safe anonymous account.

    If that proves to be Mission Impossible, go to a timeless Photoshop classic. Find a picture of 2 gorillas fucking. Paste the bully’s head over the fuckEE and your principal’s head over the fuckER. Slide a copy in every locker one Sunday morning. Avoid security cams. Via Con Dios, my little dweeb soldier.

    7) FROM Erin [Dallas] 

    Benji ?????  Today is this guy's birthday who I met over the summer. He is a year older than I, and has a not-so-perfect past, involving a lot of fights and drugs. He doesn't mess around with the heavy stuff anymore, but he still smokes weed. I don't really have a problem with this, or anything. The truth is, a little over a month ago, he stopped talking to me. I met him late June, and we really connected. I even took him to one of your shows in Oklahoma (since there wasn't a TX show) after knowing him just a week. However, the next day, I had to go out of town, but we texted daily and talked on the phone every couple of days. He said he liked me, called me beautiful and angel and sweetheart and... I was basically sure that once i came back, he would ask me out in person, since he wasn't the kind of guy who would do that over the  phone.  Then, I just stop hearing from him. And any attempts I made to talk to him, he seemed annoyed or vague that I was talking to him.  Now there's no communication at all. 

    I thought I was fine at first, like, the summer went on and I guess I pushed all my feelings for him to the back of my mind. But once school started, things started to get shitty because... well, that's how school makes you feel... and things started resurfacing.  I think about him all the time, and we haven't talked in what seems like forever. It's not like it was some lengthy romance thing, either. I mean, I met him, we basically spent an entire four day weekend together, as many hours as possible, and continued to talk after we were in different cities. 

    Basically, my question is, I did the right thing by not sending that text message of "Happy Birthday" today, right? I need to suck it up and get on with everything?  I don't think I'm being pathetic and moping about it... but he's still on my mind a lot. And I was also wondering how on earth to get this guy of my mind?  I want to stop hearing his voice in my head (I think). I want to stop wishing his name would pop up on my phone. I want to stop wishing I could run into him in person so we could work this out. But the thing I want the most? I want to be able to want all those things with 100% assurance.

    Erin Hey. Don't want to be too much of a bummer but i think moving on is the right thing to do. If a guy is only gonna call you and hang out when it’s convenient or he’s in town and that’s the nature of the relationship, that’s all good, but if you find that it’s kind of leaving you bummed then it isn’t good for you. When a dude really likes you he will call you too much. –doesn’t matter where he is or what he is doing. if he has other priorities, well then that’s just where he is at in his life. -and you can’t let that bum you out. Check out that movie "He's Just Not That Into You." -definitely some wisdom in it. Keep it movin, keep it movin.... Hope that helps....good luck!! 

    8) From LENORE:

    ???????????????????MAT

    a. What is your opinion on illegally downloading music?

    I have a new rule… I will condone the piracy of our new album to anyone who intends to play it for 10 new potential fans. 

    b. What is your favorite sex position and why?

    The Hellhammer. I’ve never actually attempted it, but I have detailed schematics that I sketched when I was bored in the studio last year. It requires 2 very liberal-minded gentlemen with a lot of upper body strength, and one very flexible woman with a high pain threshold and an unusually large lung capacity. Less a sexual position, more of a diabolical imposition for all parties involved.

    c. Bondage: yes or no?

    I’m gonna have to land on NO. Early one morning I once accidentally stumbled upon a private bondage soirée in a Chicago biker bar. I enjoyed watching the plump fellow in the pig mask and diaper getting repeatedly tazered by a dominatrix. I imagine the look on my face was similar to that of a young Charles Darwin, -the first time he set eyes on the mysterious creatures of the Galapagos Islands.

    d. So what was that story about you making out with a dude and did you get aroused?

    No. It was a semi-homo means to a very hetero end. I won’t get into it.


    9. FROM N&J

    ??????Benji, You've been in the music industry for a while now, and not  only have you grown as a person but your music has grown a lot and so have  your fans. My best friend and I have been listening to GC since we were in elementary school - which is a really long time. We literally grew up on your music and turned from little jerks, to awkward teenagers who thought we were super cool and totally punkrawk and then into the [way] cooler people we are today.

    A lot has changed since then, and though we don't listen to GC  24/7 anymore, we still like to throw back and drive around the city blasting  your music and singing around like old times. My question is: how do you feel about having this type of impact on people's lives and being the music  they were raised on? :]

    N&J, Thanx so much. that is kind of a cool question, its strange for me to think that our music is a part of peoples soundtracks to their lives and the memories they have with their friends and their families growing up. How does it feel. I have to be honest. that is the part i love the most. More then any money i could ever make or any award i could ever get. Knowing that there are some people out there that feel the way about my band that i feel about some of the bands i love, that really makes me excited to finish this record we are working on now and get back out there and show them who we are today. to give them more lyrics let them in a little more and show them they weren't wrong. It gets me excited. Thanx for that and i really hope you guys dig "Cardiology" take care!               

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    ???Mikey,
    I got diagnosed today, how did you cope with being bi-polar?
    Oh, and random question: Is the gingersnap latte still gingersnap where you are? Cos it's gingerbread here (Wales)
    Finally, I'm going to America over Christmas, you guys playing any gigs from the 22nd to the 4th?
    Alix, 16, Wales

    Alix on December 17, 2009 at 05:46 PM

    ????MIKEY
    What's better
    Star Trek or Star Wars?
    Hard question I know :)

    Sarah :) on November 25, 2009 at 05:27 PM

    ????Mikey.

    I know this sounds really stupid, but there is this boy that I have a crush on. Me and him were "together" before, but he ended it because his friend liked me and he said that he didn't feel like he was being a good friend. I still like him and we are still friends, but he doesn't like me in a "girlfriend" kind of way. And I sort of feel like he is trying to make me feel like crap because he knows that I like him, yet he still asks me for advice on girls. I don't really want anyone other than him. He is the only guy I know who listens to the same tunes as me, likes the same movies, shares a fascination with Batman and zombies, and isn't a complete prick. As much as I hate to say it, I'm thinking about just giving up on him. Should I?

    Sara Hall on November 23, 2009 at 11:30 AM

    Mikey????? i REALLY like this guy at school, and before i met him i never believed in love. i hate all those stupid romcom's coz they're so cheesy. but this is different. my friends say go 4 it and ask him out but there's another girl at school who is always flirting with him and won't leave him alone, which really makes me feel worthless and upset. i feel like no one will ever like me the way i like him. he hates clingy girls and everything, but this guy i know thinks he might like her back. any advice??? the guy i really like is invading my thoughts every 5 secs. thnx so much. ily!!! xoxoxoxox

    Chloe on November 22, 2009 at 08:54 AM

    ??Mikey??
    Hey are you guys going to start touring soon??If so then please stop in Serbia you are super famous there!!!!!!!!!!
    thanks,Melissa.P

    Melissa on November 13, 2009 at 07:55 PM

    And if anyone is gay it wouldnt be gerard everyone thinks hes gay but frank always kisses him...does frank like him dat way? And y does bob hate camras???????????? And 1 more how many tattoos does frank have?

    taytay on November 13, 2009 at 06:59 PM

    i love mcr and i have forever. But i really love gerard arthur way i no almost everything about him but to be complete..... how much does he weigh at age 32?

    taytay on November 13, 2009 at 06:53 PM

    hi mikey my sister and i are huge fans and we were wondering if you have ever played in Rhode Island.

    Alex jablonski on November 12, 2009 at 05:37 PM

    who do you think would win in a fight between a grilled cheeze sandwich or a taco?

    Rachael on November 11, 2009 at 01:26 PM

    hey mikey,
    I have one question....
    Who do you admire the most and why?
    Thanks(: i love you guys! keep rocking :]

    Kelly on November 10, 2009 at 04:30 PM

    hi.. how are your???? i love you my chemical romance, in especial a gerard... a i love you sou much whith all my hear... and my brother in law...... i am from to venezuela.. good kiss kiss

    nauhm on November 8, 2009 at 08:24 PM

    Hey Mikey I was wondering if ya'll would ever come to Mississippi? I went to ya'll show in New Orleans and loved it just wish ya'll would come down south to see how great it is down here.

    Paige on November 7, 2009 at 05:30 PM

    when will i get the chance to meet you and the rest of the band?

    karuna on November 7, 2009 at 04:04 PM

    hey mikey,hey mikey, hope you are well :)
    mmm you think if you buy you a coffee?? :p
    you are very nice and I hope you read my message
    I have you in my twitter around talking bye
    take care ^^
    by: JessicaWar

    Jessica War on November 6, 2009 at 07:42 PM

    hello mikey!

    just wondering..

    will you guys come back again here in the Philipines soon?
    i've been waiting for you guys to come.. :)

    and what can you say about your new album? and,when are you going to release it?

    thankyou,takecare,and Godbless!

    xoxo..:)..ghuzmarie

    ghuzmarie on November 4, 2009 at 09:21 AM

    Hey Mikey, I'm a christian and I was just wondering were you guys stand in religion, I know you curse in some songs and I don't think you have any religion based songs, but you guys are so different from normal bands, and you sort of stand apart trying to get away from drugs and sing about good and meaningful things. I was just wondering about you guys, because you are all so amazing, but like sometimes I worry :\

    W0keUpScre4ming on November 3, 2009 at 02:34 PM

    hey mikey!,when do we get to see MCR back on action?-we can't wait! it feels like 4 years!!!
    ----and-- when do we get to see gee's baby without any mask?

    mary on November 1, 2009 at 10:45 PM

    Mikey I am gettin' a bass guitar for Christmas and I was just wondering what you think the best brand is.my chemical romance is the best band in the world.

    amanda cary on November 1, 2009 at 07:16 PM

    What is your favorite guitar???

    izapunk_hertzz on October 31, 2009 at 08:11 PM

    Hello Mikey,
    It annoys me so much how everytime I mention My Chem, I always have people tell me how bad they are live and how their music doesn't make sense. I just flip them off, I mean honestly, what do they know? I couldn't care less on what people say, I'm a fan and it will stay that way.
    Aaaanyway, my question is, what pressures you the most? Is it a big stage, or interviews with you as the main subject, or questions like these? x] Anything, when it pressures you, how do you react?
    Thanks and good luck on answering the rest of these.
    Love, Sammi from London.

    Sam on October 31, 2009 at 09:20 AM

    MIKEY???
    First of all LOVE the band theyre like number 1 on my list.
    Second I want to ask you a question and get your opinion not the band because i think it must be a little annoying when people never ask you a question for you as a person not for you and the people you work with.

    How did or do you deal with peer pressure?

    because as me and my friends grow older, my friends started changing like skipping school ,partying and honestly I know people may say its a normal thing for 15 year olds to do but im really not in to that sort of stuff but they dont understand that.

    Another question: How did you explain something that you try to make people understand from your point of view?

    Im not getting my hopes high for an answer because there are loads of people who asked questions. Im just asking what you would do...

    Thanks
    Faisa in London

    Faisa on October 31, 2009 at 09:06 AM

    On to my teenage years; My social life was quite very near the bottom, me having literally only four friends up until like, 6th grade. I'm still hurt daily and picked on. Just yesterday I counted six or seven of my supposed friends laughing and throwing food at me for unknown reasons. I missed my Fall Ball concert, which I'd been dreaming about for three weeks, and the guy I like, he was the one who started the throwing of items; I now have three cut marks on my arms, and they weren't there before I got home. I'm not usually one to unload my life-stories on someone who doesn't even know who I am. I know you would care, because I've seen what you've said. And NO ONE can fake all those words. I'm again asking for advice, what the FUCK should I do? I'm 14, I live in semi-poverty, my whole family objects to my new vegetarian lifestyle, and my life is having less and less meaning by the day. Not that therapists aren't helpful and all, but... I've had a therapist. Lots of them. For different stuff, too. I don't do well with people who don't get me. I'm just about as smart as they are and they can't help me. I sorely wish they could, but... it's not possible. I know you'll probably not have any advice, and I'm sorry for the trouble, but could you give some condolence to the girl who might not be here next year?

    Love, sincerely, and all that crap...
    that girl named Frankie.

    Frankie Runge on October 30, 2009 at 10:33 PM

    ?????Mat

    I know lots of comments or whatever begin like this, but URGH.
    I'm not whining about not getting questions answered, I'm hardly even whining. I'm not complaining; the sound I make is not one of complaint, but of worry, severe inner depression, self-loathing in the worst possible way, and the pain of being overloaded as the serious one.
    I know you probably don't remember me, because, who honestly would? I'm not special, my name isn't clever, and my stories aren't that interesting. But oh well, I came to this comment box to ask you:
    What the fuck should I do?
    Put simply, my life's story is actually longer than most, but still just as pointless. The bad parts outweigh the better parts, being as numerous as they are bad. I got molested when I was 3, then again when I was 6 or 7, parents divorced, hate each other utterly and completely, battle each other constantly and use my sister and I as tools to hit the other with, in which I am the smaller, younger, and more easily bruised/scarred-physically and mentally- and I can't seem to figure out what I did to make it like this.
    -c- because the comment box is being a douche...

    Frankie Runge on October 30, 2009 at 10:33 PM

    could you tell your brother can i have his number on the cellphone gerald way and you of course and your band is my favorite band in the world could you give me your number too that would be helpful.

    valen on October 29, 2009 at 08:59 PM

    yo how is it haging is it true you are looking for a new guitar lead i will be happy to be that one

    valen on October 29, 2009 at 08:57 PM

    BAM

    ok so my boy friend, brother, and dad are all in afghanistan. do u have any advice on coping with the struggle of having 3 people close to your heart, oceans apart? 415 713 2522. i am on the virge of a breakdown, cuz i dont know how to survive without them. i sit and listen to MCR all day. my bf is a huge fan of MCR!

    brooke irby on October 29, 2009 at 06:33 PM

    Hey mikey, I know you'll never read this, but will MCR ever come to albuquerque on a tour? Because we really want you to come.. I know everyone asks the band to come to their town.. But yeah, that would be awesome.
    Thanks to you and MCR for really helping me out of some tough spots. You really saved my life. My parents took away my MCR CDs but I still listen in secret when I can. Thank you for doing more than I can say. I'll always stay a fan.

    Fueledbyloveandramen on October 29, 2009 at 12:32 PM

    hey mikey
    ok so i have a question... does it suck to always work with your brother?(no offense to gerard cuz he's basically my idol) but if i was around my brother for more than 4 hours at a time i would totally find a wall and bash my head off it.so... i totally love you guys i hope you get a new album out soon cuz i have all of them and i need more mwah!

    Kortni on October 28, 2009 at 05:39 PM

    hey mikey im huge mcr fan and have been playing the bass for about a year your truly and inspriation and i just wanted to know when you started play and how hard was it to get as good as you are today?

    Alyssa on October 27, 2009 at 11:53 PM

    hey so , my boyfriend is in iraq right now and i feel all alone in the world. he loves kill hannah and MCR! he rocks out to it in Afg. i was wondering if you have ever considered joining the military, and if you would ever be in the military which branch would you be in? oh and also, have you ever thought about do a sponser concert for returning veterans?

    brooke irby on October 27, 2009 at 07:21 PM

    hey its me brooke again, haha. well when u are away from your true love for a long time, what do you do to keep your self up and motivated. any advice for me?

    brooke irby on October 27, 2009 at 07:15 PM

    hey! so my boyfriend is in the marines! and he listens to kill hannah! and MCR! he is in afghanistan right now and all of your guys music lifts his spirits up!!! lol. i just wanted to say thanx cuz every picture ive seen of him in Afg. is of him rocking out to your music! haha. i have been to 7 MCR concerts. and 3 Kill hannah concerts with him. i love both of your music! and yah! i got one question, are you ever thinking about doing a tour for the US veterans, to like donate money for veterans, and wounded soldiers. cuz i would love to talk to you about it. and my other question is, how did you guys come up with the names for your bands? love you! love Brooke (proud Marine GF) (415 713 2522)

    brooke irby on October 27, 2009 at 07:13 PM

    Hey Mikey, I've been a huge MCR fan for a couple years now and I just wanted to say that you all have saved my life. Not just saying that, you literally did, and I just wanted to say thank you, I am the person I want to be because of you. So thank all the guys for me please : )
    the question I wanted to ask was if in the future, whenever you tour again if you could please come to minnesota so I can finally see you guys live, it would be amazing if you could, thanks Mikey

    Rachel on October 27, 2009 at 03:54 PM

    Hey, I love your music so much that my mom took my ipod away because it is pretty much glued to my ear.

    Keep writing more music because it is awesome!!!!

    Thanks.

    Josiah Powell on October 27, 2009 at 02:33 PM

    hey mcr, love u all, i have been going tho all this year and the only thing that help me tho it all is ur music thank god my chemical romance came to this earth i dont know what i would do with out mcr in my life. the sucky part is i have never got to see u guy tour i have only seen mcr tho cds and youtude clips. but its all i need. i wish mcr culd came to tx just one more time i would be so happy, my friends said im crazy for mcr, well it ture i am, i really got in to mcr in 2008, the frist song i heard was welcame to the black parade, than i was in love with mcr i would listen to the radio just for that song, than i got the cd than loved mama I wanted more so i got ur frist cds,my mom did not like me spending all her money on mcr stuff but i toled her i loved them so much, my walls r covered in mcr stuff, mainly stuff i made of mcr, but stil to this day i love mcr!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!, so hopfully u can came tour to the usa again

    mkay on October 27, 2009 at 11:21 AM

    HY guy =D Ok, I wish you're well and ask some questions:

    - What's your favorite character? And in what book?

    - If you are a capital sin, which one were you?

    I wish you understand my bad English.. sorry, don't hit me! >-<''

    m0ka on October 26, 2009 at 05:07 AM

    WHY DID YOU STICK A FORK IN A TOASTER!!! (btw i did too.) i just want to know what your excuse was. :3

    Katt on October 25, 2009 at 09:56 PM

    HI. OO Mikey u're amazing and my question for you is...how is your relasionship with your brother? Do you guys fight alot or hardly fight @ all...that type of thing.

    ~Katt

    Katt on October 25, 2009 at 09:55 PM

    Mikey????
    Okay, I have like a gazillion questions, but here is a few:
    1.)I have just recently lost my teacher and best friends and he died of a heartattack.I'm moarning the loss and I was wondering if you could help me to figure out a way to deal with it.
    2.)I'm sure you've had a lot of peer pressure, but I want to know how you delt with it.

    it would be awesome if you would awnser these questions and IM YOUR BIGGEST FAN!!!!!

    Hallie Hoffman on October 25, 2009 at 09:47 PM

    ????mikey do you like ironmaiden

    claire on October 25, 2009 at 04:53 PM

    well this is a simple one... what is your favorite colour? i really do wonder 8D
    hugs <3

    zara on October 25, 2009 at 04:38 PM

    Why aint you guys playing in Gothenburg when youre comming too Sweden?
    that was a short question xD
    love ya :*

    Jack on October 25, 2009 at 04:34 PM

    ???Mikey
    What's the worst gift you've ever received and what's the worst gift you have even given someone? Who was it?

    Francesca on October 25, 2009 at 12:20 PM

    wait.... i forgot to ask... i know this is a personal question but i really want to figure this one out...mikey is it true that you're a bipolar?

    summerocks on October 25, 2009 at 03:59 AM

    i just want to ask mikey a one simple question.... i know he can answer this... How is your sex life?

    summerocks on October 25, 2009 at 03:49 AM

    ????mikey
    DUDE! have you even anserd one? come on! i hope it wasn't all of the stupid coments that turned you off.
    any way my questions are...
    1)i know he is buisy and everything but do you know when gee is going to post on the MCR blog?
    2)i know you guys are curently recording so,i have to wonder whats your favorate and least favorate part of recording?
    3)is that going well?
    i love you all so much and i hope your doing Ok also, please don't get too pissed at us.

    someoneelse on October 24, 2009 at 09:08 PM

    Hey Mikey:

    Last night I had a dream that you and I were passionatly in love. The night before I dreamt that Frank (Iero) was my uncle.
    Is My Chemical Romance taking over the world?! ;)

    Kait on October 24, 2009 at 06:18 PM

    Mikey is it true you and the rest of the band judged escape the fate on a radio contest ?

    Naudiea on October 23, 2009 at 11:46 PM

    ???? Mikey
    I am a big fan of MCR you guys really helped m out of a dark spot in my life thanks. I Really want to go to art school but my parents said that I can't because they will disown me and won’t help me pay for it they really want me to be a lawyer but I don't want that at all. Paying for school is not really a problem for me because I have been saving since the second grade for school, but I don't think I would be ok with them disowning me I mean we fight all the time but I still love them. What should I do should I do what I love and know I'll be happy dirt poor and alone but happy or should I do something that will never truly make me happy?
    -Maggie

    Ps. By “dark spot in my life” I meant I only listened to country music. I had a Toby Keith poster on the wall in my room. I got in to a lot of great bands because of you guys thanks again.

    maggie on October 23, 2009 at 08:55 PM

    MIKEY :) , hope you be great and ¿¿how you do for have a so good relation with your brother ?? , (i m a fifeteen and i fight with my brother all the time xD ) XOXO from Chile =) ----MCR ROCKS!---

    KsSnDrA *-* on October 23, 2009 at 03:55 PM

    hey mikey...i am sarah i am seventeen years old . i am from eygpt.i love the lyrics of your song so much ....i am even taking courses in english so i could understand them all ...i just wanaa ask if there is a chance that you can come to egypt????also i want to ask you what are the charactristic that ou and gerard share...i love you both so much i even sometimes wish that i was your mother...i do not know why???love you

    sarah on October 23, 2009 at 02:16 PM

    Hey Mikey F***ing Way, i just turned 17 last week and i was wondering what were you like at this age in terms of figuring out what you wanted to do with your life.

    James Ford on October 23, 2009 at 01:02 PM

    ??????Mikey
    If you could be anywhere you wanted to be where would you be right now?

    Kanze on October 22, 2009 at 10:09 PM

    i have a qustion for Mikey Way :D Mikey when you where in Middle school Did They Made fun of you and your Brother???

    Gabriella E. Iuculano on October 22, 2009 at 08:44 PM

    ???MIKEY
    okay so i admit highschool has its fun times and the times its not fun, im going to look back and laugh at it.Im going to go strait off the bat and say im not a virgin, and im only 15. my friend is 16 and just lost her virginity to my best friend at a erley halloween party sum girl at our school was hosting. i was there, and whene i found the 2 of them litteraly together, she ammediatly tryed telling me "its not what it looks like." im mostly mad because her BF is my best friend and i guess i sorta wanted for the both of them to hold onto that(there viginity) she knew that and now its just sex between them, and i hate it. i try telling her, but i dont kno how to tell her my feelings, youve been thrue highschool drama.can you help me put this in a way tat people could uderstand?
    Bri,MN

    Brianna on October 22, 2009 at 07:19 PM

    ???Mikey

    This is gonna seem like a random question, but if you could be anything, any animal, object, person, ANYTHING, what would it be and why? ALSO if you could go back in time and change ONE THING that you or MCR has done, what would it be and why?

    Love you! Cant wait for you to come to canada! Tell Gerard that we all love him!

    BrookeW on October 22, 2009 at 11:11 AM

    Mikey, Do you miss your glasses? I know i do they were adorable :] tehehe

    Ninny on October 22, 2009 at 09:17 AM

    Hi Mikey,
    I'd just like to thank you. Well, you Gerard, Bob, Frank, and Ray. Oh and Matt, if I' going to thank Bob I have to thank Matt. A couple years ago my friend introduced me to My Chemical Romance's music and I got hooked. You hear this a lot, but I seriously don't know where I'd be if she hadn't had me listen to Teenagers. When she showed me the video I was going through a depressed, dark, rebellious stage, I'd come home and go straight to my room. I rarely talked to my parents and was always in a bad mood. The only thing that kept me from doing anything self-destructive was my mom's threats to commit me. She was already talking about making me go to a shrink. I wasn't having that. So when my friend got me to listen to that song, I pretty much fell in love with (more in obsession with) Gerard, to me he was like an angel sent from heaven to get me through. I looked up every possible thing about Gerard and the band, eventually my friend got extremely annoyed. Over the past couple years my obsession has gone away, but my love for the music and my feelings about Gerard being an angel are still intact. I realize this sounds extremely corny but it's all true. I look forward to the time, whenever it might be, that MCR goes back on tour in the United States so that I can thank all five of you in person.
    I have a few questions for you incase you read this. Why are you guys touring everywhere but the U.S. in the next couple of months? Have any of you ever became good friends with a fan you met on tour? Who was the craziest person you've ever met on tour? How did Gerard react to the 9/11 terrorist attacks? I heard he was like right across the street or something when it happened and he watched it first hand. I also heard that this was part of the cause for MCR, did it effect him more deeply than that?
    ...Thanks,
    Derinda

    Derinda Heinzelman on October 22, 2009 at 12:19 AM

    ** criticized **

    Ashley on October 21, 2009 at 11:19 PM

    ok last comment i send u like a million lmfao ok so my email is lilmcr_30@yahoo.com wat a coincidence lil mcr ny way email me im not special or famous but u r n itll mean alot if u at least write hey or even write a dot ill freak out plz love u

    viki on October 21, 2009 at 10:48 PM

    YeH Mik3y if ur reading this,really, jus know l luv my chem oh n starbucks !!!!! You guys r like so totally awsome n i luv u guys!!!! i hope one day i runn into one of u guys at starbucks so i can scream my brains out and beg for ur autograph n like scream in shock..... lol so wat do u prefer dunkin doughnuts or starbucks? oh random yet retarted question do u believe the world will end in2012 ???? well luv u guys l8er !!!!! Viki

    viki on October 21, 2009 at 10:33 PM

    Omg!!!!My chem is so ..... omg!!! Mikey when is my chems next album comin out? i luv u guys ur so awsome and i love the Mikey fuckin way shirt i own one .. fukk yeah!!! so how long do u think u guys will last and become legends of rock??? pEAce -n-LuV :). ViKi

    viki on October 21, 2009 at 10:25 PM

    ????MIKEY
    Hi mary from chile
    i wanna know if my chemical romance will come back to chile with your new album?
    and if the answer is yes approximately when?
    and if is true that your brother gee have a new facebook account because i have a friend that said that is he and he's really like gee
    i love you guys ! i have a group in facebook with 2500 fans in all the world :D so for this reason i'd love to know if you will come back to chile
    we miss you !!
    xoxo

    MAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARY on October 21, 2009 at 10:00 PM

    What is your favorite color of eyes, skinny jeans, guitar, and cat?

    Kiani (kee-ah-nee) on October 21, 2009 at 09:36 PM

    Who would you say is your inspiration from another band? Who was your favorite band that you toured with? What is your favorite string on the base (lol)?

    Kiani (kee-ah-nee) on October 21, 2009 at 09:35 PM

    ????Mikey
    I don't have anyone to talk to, so when in turmoil, turn to MCR. Specifically, you, in this instance. Everything in my life has gone utterly and completly wrong. I always find some way to stuff up everyting I touch. I have wracked my brains but can only come up with one solution, but on Life On The Murder Scene, we were told not to piss our lives away on that. It seems to be my only remaining option, although one of my frineds encourages therapy, I'm not about to do that. I'm drowning in this life I hate so much. What do I do?
    p.s Sorry to burden you with this, but I figured I should talk to soomeone before I do something rash.
    Thank you.

    AbbyJayne on October 21, 2009 at 09:34 PM

    ???MIKEY

    Hey, if you're reading this..... you probably never will, but hey, who knows? Anyways. I want to know if one of the band members, preferabbly Frank, could write me a letter with his signature inside. It wouldn't even have to say anything, and it would mean the world to me. If you want me address for the letter, email me first at keeks96@gmail.com. Thanks soooo much.

    ps- thank you ever so much for inspiring me to draw the pictures, write the music, and take the photos i do. It's pretty much MCR and Green Day that has kept me alive and healthy and where i am today. You have shaped my entire life; beliefs, personality, everything. Without you, i am nothing. Just... i cant even express my infinite gratitude. Thank you.

    Kiani (kee-ah-nee) on October 21, 2009 at 09:33 PM

    Mikey, you have some of the coolest shirts from what I've seen on twitter, where do you get them, or do you have them specially made?

    Sabrina on October 21, 2009 at 08:54 PM

    ????MIKEY
    r u guys ever coming to pittsburg if so when bc it would be cool if it was in march because my friendswouldnt have to look 4 the perrfect gift they'd just get tickets lol

    tessa on October 21, 2009 at 08:14 PM

    ????MIKEY
    omg ur so cool lol any way i always had to qestions 4 u #1 what kinda relationship do u have with gerard i mean are u guys freinds or what #2 whats ur fav. mcr song?

    tessa on October 21, 2009 at 08:11 PM

    Hey Mikey, I just wanted to know, what influenced you to get involved in music and play the bass? Did you play any other instruments before the bass?

    Kristina K. on October 21, 2009 at 07:53 PM

    ???? mikey

    aww and tell me please When will the next album ..!!!!

    I love them.

    [aDriizZ]

    adriiz...!!! :[ on October 21, 2009 at 04:54 PM

    ????Mikey
    do you like pokémon? if yes, which is your favourite and why?

    mia on October 21, 2009 at 04:05 PM

    I'm from Poland and I've always wondered if MCR will ever come to Paland and i you'll have to choose with which member of MCR would you sleep over? :D

    Ann Zuo on October 21, 2009 at 09:49 AM

    ???Mikey

    My friend's obsessed beyond belief with MCR, she has taken to calling you Milky Way, for various reasons, what do you think of this?

    Kitty on October 21, 2009 at 03:33 AM

    ?????MIKEY
    Are My Chemical romance going to do any tours in Australia in 2010, other than Soundwave?
    xoxo Laney

    Laney on October 21, 2009 at 03:20 AM

    ???Mikey
    do you smoke pot?

    Drew on October 21, 2009 at 01:19 AM

    who would win a taco or a grilled cheese sandwhich?

    Ruth on October 20, 2009 at 11:55 PM

    ????William
    Ok First off I would like to say that I am a new fan and I already love your music after just a few days. Anyways I saw you in Tempe,AZ and I met some girls there and they had seen you the day before in Tucson I heard you fell I just wanted to know what happened because the one girl said you were singing to her or something? and I want to say my friend that introduced me to you was supposed to go with me but never did and I think she was shattered when she found out she couldn't go. I went and I got the setlist from you guys and you signed it so I want to say thank you for making my friends dream come true(well she wanted to meet you but she said that would work because she's not spoiled(she is the farthest thing away from it)) and for helping me do that for her.

    Kasey on October 20, 2009 at 11:49 PM

    ?????Mikey

    Have you ever gone skinny dipping? O:

    xx;

    Lisaaaa on October 20, 2009 at 11:07 PM

    ?????Mikey

    If you had to pick between being a ninja or a wizard, which would you be?

    xx;Lisa

    Lisaaaa on October 20, 2009 at 11:06 PM

    Mikey how has playing for My Chemical Romance changed for you?


    My name is Aztec in case you were interested.

    huitziloxochitl on October 20, 2009 at 10:08 PM

    ???Mikey
    I cant think of anything to ask, so ill make it simple-what's your favorite flavor of coffee?
    wow. hope that wasn't as stalkerish as it sounds.
    but if that wasn't creepy enough here-
    i love you.

    you are very welcome.

    lori on October 20, 2009 at 07:35 PM

    ????MIKEY

    Which Wild Thing would you be in Where The Wild Things Are?

    BmMonster on October 20, 2009 at 07:35 PM

    ????MIKEY

    Do you have any advice for someone who is trying to be less shy? I just started high school and I'm trying to be more outgoing.

    Rachel S on October 20, 2009 at 07:20 PM

    why did the glasses have to go ? people with glasses are just wayy cool.
    or is contacts just more convenient while on stage?

    Ariana on October 20, 2009 at 06:32 PM

    ????Mikey

    ive been a fan since before the black parade and was a huge fan of the black parade as well, is there any chance of the parade coming back to life onstage?
    and what happened to bobs twitter?
    <3-Adrienne

    adrienne on October 20, 2009 at 06:06 PM

    Okay Way, i know your little dirty secret!
    (Okay, maybe not, that's why this is my question)
    What was exaclty your relationship with Gabe Saporta on the Warped Tour?
    Did anything happen between you two? Cause he said you were dating. LOL
    Let me know.
    Please & Thank You.

    Romantic.xo.

    QuiteRomantic on October 20, 2009 at 05:59 PM

    Mikey, i know your band is a band that saves lives. Definantly saved mine. But lately, i've been feeling so horrible. I just don't wanna do anything with my friends anymore! I will even spend weekends in my room by myself. And i am 16 years old, i'm not sure if this is part of growing up, or this is a real problem.. My mom has tried to talk to me about it and she came to the conclusion that a) i have no friends (i'm not exactly the.. popular girl at my school- unlike my two sisters who have a high level on the social scale) or b) a few years ago, i was put on medication for severe anxiety, and she blames it on that. She refuses to admit that there is something wrong with me. I just really want to be happy like i used to be, and i want to live my teenage years to the fullest. Any adcive?

    Kelsey on October 20, 2009 at 05:39 PM

    Hey Mikey! I just wanted to ask you how much has your day to night life changed since you guys really got to be known? Do you miss anything from before or do the perks of everything new cover it? :]

    Your Fan,
    Skyy.

    Skyy Ross on October 20, 2009 at 05:29 PM

    ?????Mikey
    Did you and the other band members ever
    agree on whether it was moose, moosi, or meese?

    Nancy on October 20, 2009 at 05:15 PM

    ???Mikey
    Heyy. I was just wondering, have you ever read Twilight? I find it to be the best book in the world. It inspires me, like you and the rest of My Chemical Romance. If you have, tell us what you think about it and how it compares to the movie.
    Keep Rockin'
    HAT

    ps- if you haven't read it and you have some free time in your super busy schedule, I encourage you to read it. It's magnificent :)

    Hillary T. on October 20, 2009 at 04:58 PM

    Hey Mikey,

    Whats your views on the paranormal and witch craft?

    love you guys!

    Dru x

    Druzilla on October 20, 2009 at 04:47 PM

    ???MIKEY
    I was wondering,since you and your brother Gerard went through depression,if you have any advice for people that are severely depressed and suicidal?

    emma on October 20, 2009 at 04:23 PM

    ??????????MIKEY
    how is the cd coming along? and have you ever named one of you bass's? thanks!!!!

    Lorna on October 20, 2009 at 03:52 PM

    ??????????MIKEY
    how is the cd coming along? and have you ever named one of you bass's? thanks!!!!

    Lorna on October 20, 2009 at 03:51 PM

    ????MIKEY
    While on tour or recording your new album do you ever fight with your older brother Gerard? ps MyChemicalRomance are my ultimate band! x

    LauraTaylor on October 20, 2009 at 03:02 PM

    When you are working on your new album or out on tour do you ever fight with your older brother Gerard? p.s MyChemicalRomance are my ultimate band! x

    LauraTaylor on October 20, 2009 at 02:57 PM

    MIKEY

    Hey I'm sorry. You keep getting all these stupid comments and questions. I just saw someone posted "I love the song "Dancing Before Disco"" They can't even get the song title right... So yeah. I absolutely love your band, for the music. I hope you're happy that you guys have inspired me and so many others to try to live out their dreams. So a few questions:

    Do you have any tips for new guitar players? (I know you play bass, but it's sort of the same thing...)

    I've heard many stories about how/how long it took you to learn bass. Was it really "overnight?"

    What's your favorite MCR song???

    Who do you feel is the most talented member of the band?

    The funniest?

    The quietest?

    If you could tour with ANY band (alive or dead) who would it be?


    You certainly don't have to answer all of these, but it would be REALLY awesome if you answered at least one....

    xo
    G

    Somebody on October 20, 2009 at 02:05 PM

    ????Mikey
    My father has a brain tumor that surrounds the main artery that supplies blood to his heart. He often has excruciating headaches and the tumor effects his eye sight greatly. The good news is that it's operable and there's only about a 1% chance of him dying during the surgery, but since he will be under anesthesia for more than 8 hours, there is always a possibility that he can have a stroke. Since the tumor is in his frontal lobe, his personality will more than likely change for the first few months of his recovery. And that worries me very much. (I'm even tearing up at the moment because I'm a dork like that) My question to you is; what is one of the hardest ordeals that is family related that you had to cope with? How did you cope with the situation?

    Catie, 13, CA

    Catie on October 20, 2009 at 01:35 PM

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